Make Space for What You’re Asking For

Miracles meet readiness, babe.

Let’s get into a part of manifestation people never talk about—making space for what you're calling in. Like, real space. In your mind. In your body. In your calendar. In your actual closet.

Because you can be doing all the things—scripting, vision boarding, repeating affirmations like it’s your job—but if your life is packed to the brim with old energy, old patterns, and old stuff, then where exactly is the new supposed to land?

Let’s take a breath first. For real. Inhale deep—fill up your lungs. Open your mouth and exhale it all out.

Now we’re here.

So let’s keep it honest. You say you want the new. But have you actually made room for it?

The Truth About Miracles

Here’s the thing: miracles need space to land. They need room. Not just intention, not just desire—but capacity.

It’s not enough to want something. Can you receive it when it comes?

That’s the part we skip. That’s the part where we get in our own way. We’re clinging to what’s familiar—old habits, identities, relationships, patterns—while praying for something better. But when we don’t release what’s expired, we’re basically telling the universe: “I don’t believe better is really coming.”

That’s the energetic block.

Think of It Like a Couch…

Let me paint the picture: You want a new couch. A better couch. One that matches who you are now. But instead of clearing out the old busted one, you leave it sitting right in the middle of the living room, hoping the new one will magically arrive and fit.

That’s what we do. With our energy. With our calendars. With our lives.

And I get it. The old couch is comfortable. You’ve had good memories on it. It might even still kinda work. But deep down, you know you’re ready for something better.

The new can't come in if you're still gripping the old.

Signs You Might Need to Clear Some Sh*t

• You feel stuck or stagnant, like nothing’s moving forward.

• You’re holding on to habits, relationships, or routines that don’t light you up.

• Your calendar is so packed there’s zero space for rest, joy, or spontaneity.

• You’re clinging to an old version of yourself because it feels safer than becoming who you actually are.

  
  

Whew. That part. Especially that last one.

If you’re on a journey of becoming, then you already know—it requires space.

Let’s Talk About Clearing

Now, I’m not gonna leave you hanging. Let’s talk about some real-life ways to make space, starting today:

1. Declutter Something (Anything)

Start small. That junk drawer. That closet. That one weird pile on the chair in your room (you know the one). When I moved last month, I cleaned out a closet that was basically the graveyard of my past life—and even though I hated every second of it, I felt lighter.

Donate clothes that no longer fit the you you're becoming. Let go of “someday” outfits and old papers and random shit that’s holding energy.

You don’t need to overhaul your whole life today. Start with one drawer.

2. Clear Your Energy

Try this tomorrow morning: Before you get out of bed, take 3 deep breaths. Visualize your day. Ask yourself, Where can I create a little space today?

Breathwork, meditation, even just five minutes of stillness—it helps you slow down enough to notice what you’ve been holding onto. That awareness is the shift.

3. Get Into Action

I’ve been saying I wanted to get back into yoga classes—and today, I finally went. Why? Because I created the time. I got more intentional with my schedule. I showed up for myself.

Every time you do the thing you said you wanted to do, you build self-trust. You prove to yourself: I’m not just talking about it—I’m being about it.

4. Audit Your Calendar

Packed calendar ≠ full life. Sometimes it just means you’re overbooked and overwhelmed.

Say no. Reschedule the meeting. Do it over email. Block off time for you the week before so you’re not scrambling the day of.

Creating space often means releasing the “busy” badge and choosing alignment over hustle.

5. Clear Out Old Narratives

Who are you telling yourself you are?

"I'm just bad with money."I always mess things up."I'm not good with people."

Stop repeating lies that no longer match your growth. Start choosing a new truth.

It can be as simple as: I’m learning. I’m growing. I’m becoming.

Last Thing: Be the Witness

If you want to know where you’re still holding on, pay attention to your thoughts right before bed. That’s where the patterns live. That’s where you can start being the loving witness.

Not judging. Just noticing. Not fixing. Just watching.

Put your hand on your heart and remind yourself: “Hey babe, you’re spiraling a bit—but you’re safe. Let’s breathe.”

That’s self-love. That’s the practice.

So this week—pick one area. Just one. Clear it out. Make room. See what shifts.

Because I promise you: when you’re brave enough to release what no longer fits, the universe will be brave enough to meet you with something better.

Miracles meet readiness.Your job is just to make the space. You've you this.💖